I find it very hard to describe to somebody how much I truly love and care about them to the point where they can feel how I feel, and that frustrates me more then anything. Yet, disappointment is so easily expressed by anger, resentment, humiliation, embarrassment and hostility that it frustrates me even more because I know that it mainly comes down to my expectations. If somebody asked something of me, I would do my hardest to facilitate that ask, and have done so countless of times in the past. So I guess, when you lay high expectations of what type of a person you should be to others, you become disappointed at how people cannot fulfill that same level of loyalty, organization, choice, altruism as you show. Essentially – reciprocity. So in that context is it wrong to expect what you give to be given back? Or is it time we all stepped back and agreed that its better to not expect anything at all from others, because then you’re removing the feeling of disappointment entirely from the equation.
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