SIGNS TWO PEOPLE WERE MEANT TO BE SOUL MATES

Have you ever stopped and just thought about your relationship with the other to be “too good to be true” or “meant to be?” Well, if these things are sometimes popping in to your mind chances are it probably is. Sometimes you could say you are waiting. Waiting patiently for more signs but yet keep on rejecting the signs. Do not worry, I have been through it and I am going to share those little signs that caught my eye. They were signs that told how we were like the shoe to her lace, the bread to his butter, the smile to her dimples.

A clear warning I would give you is that all these signs may not need to be your soulmate checklist but if it ticks off most points. Well, I don’t think I have to tell you the rest.

You both share stories, moments and events with each other and sometimes they all seem parallel to each other. It was like when something happens it happens to the both of you. Even the stories before you met each other. It can be weird at first because you never met each other before a certain point but it seems like you knew each other decades before that certain point.

Basically it is what it means, you both complete each other’s sentences. You struggle to find finish a word with a sentence but he or she will find it for you or will also struggle to find the word but knows exactly the meaning of how the sentence finishes even before finishing. You both probably would have lost count of the times you both think and said the same thing at the same time. You could probably say that it is like you can read others minds and sometimes even wonder why do you even talk to each other when you know what he is thinking. Isn’t it crazy the way that humans connect?

Having someone who feels just right is something that you want to show off to people. Lets face it, if he or she badly wants you to come over or meet their parents that only means one thing. He or she is proud to have you in your life and wants to show you off to the person they respect the most.

There is also a casual but creepy enough logic that says that you mostly get attracted to a personalities the represent the parent of your own opposite sex. If was the woman I would be attracted to the personality that is almost or close to my dad’s. You probably would say to each other, that you remind me of your mother or father depending on which one you are.

You have this craving to see or talk to each other but not too much and not too little. You both decide on gut factors. Needing each other is good needing too much is a problem but you both hit the sweet spot all the time. Not being able to meet up in that sweet spot may feel like something is missing in life. It would be like that special thing that releases stress. Keeps one focus on reality. To put in other words things just feel right. Being together is easy. Comfortable. More important it feels like you coming home.

Everyone fights with each other. Two not fighting means they are not close enough to share the own opinions on different things. When things do get rough, breaking up or quitting on each other is never on the cards. No matter what, you guys will end up making things right because deep down you both know that together is where you belong and without you noticing you both will be friends. Ever thought to your self why are you both laughing at jokes when you guys are suppose to be mad at each other? Yup, that is a sign.

Starting off with jokes, you guys have too inside jokes from singing off key to embarrassing wardrobe malfunctions. You probably forgot how your laugh sounds because its mixed with the other person’s laughing. Every time a keyword or punchline of one your inside jokes comes up in a group conversation you just start laughing while the rest look awkwardly on.

Jokes apart, the understanding of essential parts of a personal is something that can’t be learnt or explained. You have to just get it. Its a kinda one of these warm and comfortable feelings you probably would see between a grandpa and grandma. The emotions you see when you watch an Ed Sheeran music video.

Understanding is on so many levels that no matter how much we try to deny the signs of the universe deep down you both know and can’t help it but just nod your heads.

I once remember having a conversation about this weird couple on a TV series and about the weird things they do together. No matter how embarrassing and the huge fights they have with each other they just move on with the fight and smile at the end of the day. When we ended the conversation, we suddenly realized we were talking about basically ourselves.  When you suddenly read this deep quote about something on social media and realize, “Oh! Wait. Its just like us.” Let me guess sometimes you both have the the after thought of, “Naaah, that is a little too cheesy.” or ‘Too good to be true.” Well, remember what I said at the beginning about that statement? *wink* *wink*

There was this song, I was shown by him during a late night drive. It was special to him. Crazily it always played everywhere during random moments with him. When going to meet him it sometimes plays on the radio. Sometimes when I think of him my playlist plays that song or best he calls me. Sometimes it may not be a song. It could anything else for you. A memory. A color. A smell. A gift.

Yep, it was beautiful. It was also the same song that played at the coffee shop when we met to tell each other that my parents wanted me to marry someone else. Maybe I was too scared to accept the signs or maybe I read the signs wrong. Until, I heard from his best friend that it was the same day he planned on proposing.

A regret, I live on till this very day.

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