Accidental Pharisees: Avoiding Pride, Exclusivity, and the Other Dangers of Overzealous Faith

Accidental Pharisees: Avoiding Pride, Exclusivity, and the Other Dangers of Overzealous Faith

by Larry Osborne
Accidental Pharisees: Avoiding Pride, Exclusivity, and the Other Dangers of Overzealous Faith

Accidental Pharisees: Avoiding Pride, Exclusivity, and the Other Dangers of Overzealous Faith

by Larry Osborne

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Overview

Zealous faith can have a dangerous, dark side. While recent calls for radical Christians have challenged many to be more passionate about their faith, the down side can be a budding arrogance and self-righteousness that “accidentally” sneaks into our outlook.

In Accidental Pharisees, bestselling author Larry Osborne diagnoses nine of the most common traps that can ensnare Christians on the road to a deeper life of faith. Rejecting attempts to turn the call to follow Christ into a new form of legalism, he shows readers how to avoid the temptations of pride, exclusivity, legalism, and hypocrisy,

Larry reminds us that attempts to fan the flames of full-on discipleship and call people to Christlikeness should be rooted in love and humility. Christians stirred by calls to radical discipleship, but unsure how to respond, will be challenged and encouraged to develop a truly Christlike zeal for God.


Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780310494447
Publisher: Zondervan
Publication date: 10/13/2012
Pages: 208
Sales rank: 685,384
Product dimensions: 5.25(w) x 8.00(h) x 0.80(d)
Age Range: 18 Years

About the Author

Larry Osborne is a teaching pastor at North Coast Church in northern San Diego County. North Coast is widely recognized as one of the most influential and innovative churches in America. Osborne speaks extensively on the subjects of leadership and spiritual formation. His books include Sticky Teams, Sticky Church, 10 Dumb Things Smart Christians Believe, and Spirituality for the Rest of Us. He and his wife, Nancy, live in Oceanside, California.

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Accidental Pharisees


By Larry Osborne

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Copyright © 2012 Larry Osborne
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ISBN: 978-0-310-49444-7


Chapter One

Accidental Pharisees

The Dark and Dangerous Side of Overzealous Faith

Let's be honest.

Passionate faith can have a dark side—a really dark side.

Just ask Jesus.

When he showed up as God in the flesh, those who thought of themselves as God's biggest fans and defenders wanted nothing to do with him. They tried to shut him up. When they couldn't, they had him killed.

That's obviously passion gone bad.

But the ancient Pharisees aren't the only example of the dark side of overzealous faith. Our history books are filled with other examples. Think of the Crusades or the Inquisition, for starters.

But that's not why I've written this book. It's not about ancient Pharisees. It's about accidental Pharisees—people like you and me who, despite the best of intentions and a desire to honor God, unwittingly end up pursuing an overzealous model of faith that sabotages the work of the Lord we think we're serving.

The problem is not spiritual zeal. That's a good thing. We're all called to be zealous for the Lord. The problem is unaligned spiritual passion, a zeal for the Lord that fails to line up with the totality of Scripture.

Unaligned Zeal

Unfortunately, most of us think of unaligned zeal as someone else's problem. We have a hard time seeing it in ourselves.

It's easy to see the scriptural misalignment in the crazy guy on the street corner with the "Turn or Burn" sign. The same with the cut-and-paste theology of people who toss out the Scriptures they don't like. It's also easy to spot it in the pompous coworker with a big Bible on his desk, a chip on his shoulder, and a tiny heart in his chest—the self-proclaimed great witness for the Lord—whom everyone tries to avoid and no one wants to eat lunch with.

But we seldom see it in the mirror.

That's because for most of us, areas of biblically unaligned and overzealous faith are unintentional. They're the result of blind spots, not sin spots. We're doing our best with the knowledge we have.

But it doesn't matter whether someone is overzealous by choice or by accident. Either way, it messes up everything. It hurts everyone, the overzealous and the victims of their zeal.

Jerks for Jesus

You've probably known a jerk for Jesus, someone who thought they were advancing the cause of the kingdom when in reality they were simply embarrassing the King.

I think of a man in our church who sees himself as a mature, front-of-the-line Christian. He's passionate about the Scriptures. Loves to study. Digs deep. He knows far more than most, so he's taken it upon himself to become a spiritual watchdog to protect the rest of us.

He barks at and then attacks anyone who misspeaks or who misuses or misunderstands the Bible. He thinks he's helping out Jesus by keeping the heretics out.

But all he does is scare the hell out of people.

Not literally. Just figuratively, unfortunately.

The problem is that God never asked him to be a pit bull for right doctrine. God does ask him (and all of us) to contend for the faith. But he asks us to do it in a manner exactly opposite of the way my pit bull friend defends the gospel. We're supposed to avoid quarreling, to be kind, and to gently instruct people who oppose us.

My friend's pit bull methodology illustrates the biggest problem with overzealous faith and the reason why it's so hard to self-diagnose. It's almost always true to Scripture, but it's not true to all of Scripture. It's partially right. It fixates on one area of God's will (for instance, defending the faith) while ignoring other parts (doing so kindly and gently).

Unfortunately, for most of us, when we think of having overzealous faith and being a jerk for Jesus, we picture someone with bad breath, bad theology, and no people skills. So it never dawns on us that we could be included.

But the fact is, we all have areas of unaligned faith and incomplete understanding. We all have blind spots, and we all have sin spots; when the two mix, it's a dangerous combination. It's hard to get everything right. That's why I call those of us who step over the line into overzealous and unaligned faith accidental Pharisees. We've stumbled into a place we never wanted to go.

Accidental Pharisees

No one starts out with the desire to become a Pharisee. They're the bad guys. We all know that. In the same way, no one ever looks in the mirror and sees a Pharisee. I've never heard anyone describe himself as a Pharisee. I bet you haven't either. The word always describes someone else.

But the truth is that accidental Pharisees are made up of people just like you and me, people who love God, love the Scriptures, and are trying their best to live by them. The thing to note about accidental Pharisees is just that. They're accidental. They're like dinner at Denny's. No one plans to go there. You just end up there.

So how does it happen? What are the early warning signs? What do we need to watch out for?

The Innocent and Dangerous Path

The journey to becoming an accidental Pharisee usually starts out innocently enough. It's often triggered by an eye-opening event.

Sometimes it's a mission trip, a conference, or a powerful new book. Sometimes it's a small group experience that makes everything else feel like you've just been playing church. Or perhaps it's a new Bible teacher who opens your eyes to things you've never seen before.

So you step out in faith. You make some big changes. You clean up areas of sin and compromise. You add new spiritual disciplines as you excitedly race off toward the front of the following-Jesus line.

But as you press forward, it's inevitable that you begin to notice that some people lag behind. And it's at this point that your personal pursuit of holiness can morph into something dangerous: a deepening sense of frustration with those who don't share your passionate pursuit of holiness.

This is the critical juncture.

If you allow your frustration to turn into disgust and disdain for people you've left behind, you'll end up on a dangerous detour. Instead of becoming more like Jesus, you'll become more like his archenemies, the Pharisees of old, looking down on others, confident in your own righteousness.

That, of course, is a terrible place to be.

But actually it can get worse.

If you continue farther down the path of contempt for those who fail to keep up, you'll end up in a place of arrogance. Fewer and fewer people will measure up to your definition of a genuine disciple. Inevitably, being right will become more important than being kind, gracious, or loving. Thinning the herd will become more important than expanding the kingdom. Unity will take a back seat to uniformity.

And your metamorphosis will be complete. You will have arrived at a place you never intended to go. You'll be a full-fledged Pharisee. Accidental, no doubt. But a Pharisee nonetheless.

In the following pages, we'll discover how to recognize and avoid these dangers. We'll turn to the words of Jesus to uncover the early warning signs of a budding Pharisee and to expose the subtle indicators that a particular path of discipleship (even if well worn and hugely popular) is actually a spiritually treacherous detour to avoid.

In addition, if you're a parent or serve in a position of spiritual leadership, we'll look at steps you can take to make sure that the things you teach, the structures you create, and the way you lead don't unintentionally foster the dark and dangerous side of overzealous faith—or worse yet, create your own little brood of accidental Pharisees.

But first, we need to begin with an accurate understanding of what it means to be a Pharisee. Who were the Pharisees? How did their name become associated with hypocrisy and misguided zeal for God? And exactly how short (and subtle) is the journey from high commitment to high treason?

(Continues...)



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Table of Contents

Part 1 Accidental Pharisees

The Dark and Dangerous Side of Overzealous Faith

1 Accidental Pharisees: The Dark and Dangerous Side of Overzealous Faith 17

2 The "P" Word: How Did the Pharisees Get Such a Bad Rap? 23

3 Joseph of Arimathea: The Disciple Nobody Wants to Be 29

Discussion Questions for Part 1 39

Part 2 Pride

When Comparison Becomes Arrogance

4 The Curse of Comparison: What T-Ball Taught Me about Pride 43

5 Pride's Unholy Trinity: Log-Eye Disease, Self-Deception, and Comparison 49

6 Overcoming Pride: The Proper Use of Scripture and a Proper Understanding of Obedience 57

Discussion Questions for Part 2 63

Part 3 Exclusivity

When Thinning the Herd Becomes More Important Than Expanding the Kingdom

7 Exclusivity: Raising the Bar to Keep the Riffraff Out 67

8 The Reason Jesus Came: Why Thinning the Herd Can Be a Bad Idea 73

9 The Sinners Jesus Liked to Hang Around: Why "Consumer Christians" Deserve a Little Love 79

Discussion Questions for Part 3 85

Part 4 Legalism

When Sacrifice Crowds Out Mercy

10 The New Legalism: The Danger of Litmus Test Christianity 89

11 Extra Rules and Extra Fences: The Danger of Adding to God's Word 95

12 The Death of Mercy: The Darkest and Most Dangerous Side of Legalism 103

Discussion Questions for Part 4 109

Part 5 Idolizing the Past

When Idealism Distorts Reality

13 The Problem with Rose-Colored Memories: Why These Might Be the Good Old Days 113

14 Learning from the Past without Idolizing the Past: An Honest Look at the New Testament Church 121

15 Speaking the Truth in Love: Confronting the Present without Lionizing the Past 131

Discussion Questions for Part 5 135

Part 6 The Quest for Uniformity

How Uniformity Destroys Unity

16 Unity and Uniformity: How Uniformity Kills Unity 139

17 Are Your Study Notes in Red? Why the Quest for Theological Uniformity Undercuts the Bible 145

18 Agreeing to Disagree: Why Bearing with One Another Matters 151

Discussion Questions for Part 6 157

Part 7 Gift Projection

When My Calling Becomes Everyone Else's Calling

19 Chocolate-Covered Arrogance: The Dark Side of Gift Projection 161

20 Gift Envy and Drive-By Guiltings: Why Evangelists, Missionaries, and Bible Teachers Make Us Feel Guilty 171

21 Money Police: What Ever Happened to the Epistles? 181

Discussion Questions for Part 7 191

A Final Word 193

Acknowledgments 197

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