Isn’t meal planning for lunch ladies and boring fuddy duddies?
Now, growing up, I knew of precisely NO ONE who did the meal planning thing. It was the 80s and 90s in California. People ate out, or winged it once they got home. The only vague awareness I had of meal planning was in the school cafeteria… They had Pizza Fridays! And… That was it.
Fighting against it
So, as I got older into my 20s, I started to become aware of meal planning from the forums on Money Saving Expert and various blogs I visited like Wholeheartedly Laura. It started to kind of sound nice, but I just kept coming back to the thought of it sounding so lacking in spontaneity. After all, I enjoyed the creativity of coming up with new dishes based on the things in my fridge!
Relying on processed foods
I continued to resist until our household hit the point of relying way too much on convenience foods for my liking. You know the type, pizza, chips/fries, breaded chicken, fish fingers/sticks, etc. Now, don’t get me wrong, I love these things every once in a while, but it was a most nights kind of thing. We were not thriving on it, I was feeling more sluggish and I had enough. Plus, we were spending a lot more money on groceries each week for stuff I knew I could make healthier and cheaper myself!
Unexpected bonuses
Once I tried it, I was pretty much hooked. I could still be creative by trying out new recipes by looking them up in advance, so the creative aspect could still be incorporated. I highly recommend Pinterest and the Baby-led weaning cookbook and apps, especially the Slow Cooker app.
What I didn’t expect though? Less stress at the end of the day! This was what really kept me going. Having a demanding job meant that by the time I got home, I had reached peak decision fatigue, and trying to decide what to make for dinner became a massive headache. Deciding our weekly plan during the weekend when my mind was fresh and not stressed was amazing! Not always easy to find inspiration, but to get home and just go on autopilot do what needed to be done to get food on the table rather than having to think about it? Genius.
Seriously, I would mentally high five my past self for each day that I kept it up, because it was such a gift.
Essential tools/tips to get started
Final thoughts
The key to this is don’t be prescriptive. Everyone does meal planning a little differently. Read up and see what others do, try it out. If it doesn’t work, change it up, adapt it to your family’s needs!
You don’t need to follow the plan strictly. I often change what we’re having what days around for any little reason, give yourself that wiggle room if you can.
If possible, try to do certain aspects of your meal planning the same time of day or week so that you get into the habit of it and it becomes more automatic over time.
Keep back-ups around! Add ingredients for one extra meal or having something in the pantry/store cupboard around just in case no one wants what you’ve planned or if you can’t be bothered!
Save the leftovers for lunch! I freeze any extras in plastic takeaway containers and take them out the night before to defrost when needed.
Finally, it can be a little hard sometimes. Try to come up with themes for certain days to reduce the amount of thinking required. For example, we always have pizza on Tuesdays and usually have pasta on Thursdays. If you’re really stuck, try to narrow it down to what carb or starchy veg you would like or haven’t had for a while and go from there!
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