I recently read this quote by Bob Marley and it had me thinking about my relationship with someone, a relationship I’m not even sure about frankly. I am human (just putting it out there incase some people weren’t sure), I have expectations like any other person. I would like to think my expectations are real though, like I don’t demand too much from people.
I am simple and not at all fussy or high maintenance. I only want these simple things from a man;
- Communication
- Try to make me feel like I at least matter to you
- Text me in the morning or text me to tell me you can’t text me later cause you’ll be busy.
- Hold my hand because you want to not because I just reached out for yours.
- Once in a while actually ask to take a picture with me or of me.
- Gossip with me some time, tell me something about your friend and I won’t judge you or put you in the same box. I honestly am chilled like that, anything mentioned during pillow talk shall not be used against you, I promise.
- When I’m walking with you can you try your hardest not to look at other women, I know it’s hard but when I’m gone you can stare away.
- Allow me to talk to you for at least 30 minutes to an hour over the phone.
- I don’t mind Netflix and chilling sometimes but can I go out with you sometime, let’s watch a movie grab lunch or even a late dinner
- You don’t have to have a car (my mom or dad can pick me up) for goodness sake I have an Uber account, we can use it and I’ll pay for transport just make sure you have everything else sorted.
Let me know if that’s too much. I’m not looking for perfect all I want to know is that you try your best and that is good enough. Allow me to be part of your world and show me you, I promise not to hurt you intentionally.
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