Do you have people who you have met and for some reason haven’t dated at the time even tho there was clearly feelings there or someone you dated and for whatever reason it didn’t work out but you can’t help but wonder will they come back and you’ll live happily ever after.
We all know the story of the off and on again relationship of Mr Big and Carrie from Sex and the City and if you don’t, have you been living under a rock. In the end he comes back and sweeps her off her feet and they live happily ever after. I have people who I have met and they have been and are still a big part of my life. For various reasons at the stage when we met we didn’t date and to be honest distance was probably the biggest factor at time in our lives where neither one could pick up and move everything gets put on the shelf and you wish each other well and hope the other lives a fantastic life and finds love.
But I can’t help but wonder will our lives mysteriously cross paths one day and we will be in the right place for things to work out and for us to sweep each other off our feet and romance to blossom. And with that hope do you subconsciously self sabotage any dating prospect that comes your way. By believing that this person isn’t as good as someone else. When they probably bring their own unique benefits to the relationship.
In an age where something shiny and new comes out to replace something old every other week are we all constantly looking for something new and better. When we should be happy with what we have or is it better to risk what we have for something that could be amazing and fabulous ?
