My ‘date’ with XY last night was… well… not a date at all, but more of a booty call. It became clear from the off that it was going to be a purely sexual affair, he was up-front (after I requested no bullshit) and said that he’s not really looking to start any kind of relationship – which suited me, (to be honest, I think he’s a bit in love with himself). He is older than I remembered (45). To have a fit young 29 year old woman turn up pretty much on his doorstep -we literally did meet at a pub five mins from his flat- and be ‘up for it’ must have made his fucking day. We had one drink (I had two because he was late and I had to wait for him to arrive) then it was straight back to his. He spoke about his big hot-shot new job as ‘head of partnerships’ and showed me his flash new company car (an Audi) but I wan’t all that impressed. He was flattering himself more than anything else, to the result of which I started to feel quite disposable. Maybe that was his intention and he thought I was a dumb, naive, easy fuck.
Well, back at his I kind of proved otherwise. We started fooling around, the sexual chemistry was there, we were both very ‘turned on’. I soon realised that he had no intention of using protection. I’m not on any form of contraception, so using a condom is mandatory (and that’s not even to mention STIs!) especially for a one-night-stand. He claimed he didn’t have any condoms and that he’d been tested etc, then when I said I might have one in my bag he said he physically can’t keep it up when wearing one. He tried to convince me to just have sex with him, in quite a demanding way and that he knows when to ‘pull out’, I refused… he has a four year old son for fucks sake… Then he started acting pissed off, I called him up on it, and he (no joke) said ‘no, it’s just disappointing’?!. I made clear that it was a deal-breaker. He either uses a condom and we have a good time fucking, or I fuck off. Simple as. Then, miraculously he found some in his top dresser draw, and surprise-surprise we did manage to have sex… It was okay sex. I didn’t orgasm -he did, quicker than I would have liked. So much for sex being ‘impossible’ for him when wearing a condom..
I left soon after, and he wasn’t even gonna walk me out. What a gent. Don’t think I’ll be seeing him again. I would have been up for a ‘friends with benefits’ no-strings type thing with him, if he wasn’t such a dick!
Advertisements Share this:
