When I was a kid, I look forward to birthdays and Christmas because of the gifts. As I grew older, my mom would assign us to buy gifts to families and friends.
I realized that thinking of the things or experiences to give to other people is not as easy as it looks like.
I learned that we have five love languages and giving according to the other people’s language can be better appreciated. It will also make them feel loved.
To start off, it is best to observe them. You can also ask them and validate it as you go along.
Some people like to give and receive personalized greeting cards. Words mean to them. Others like to show affection through hugs and kisses. Still others would better appreciate it if you are with them to enjoy a cup of tea and have some talk. Some like to give and receive favors from others like helping them out in the organization of the home. Lastly, others would like to give and receive gifts.
Through the years I learned that giving shows that we are concerned for other people. When we spend our time, energy and resources for others, we invest in their lives.
I also learned that it is best to keep it simple. It maybe just a simple note or a pat on the back but it goes along way!
Most importantly, we give because we are stewards of God’s resources. We give not just if we have an extra savings. We give because we have faith that God will supply our needs in the days to come.
Start with what you have and make others feel loved!
Jannel
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