I don’t care if you have 1,000 Ex-boyfriends/girlfriends, don’t ever give up on love. I know you’ve made failures in your previous relationships but don’t ever lose hope because God has someone special for you. Do you actually think He would create you without a partner? You may not be a celebrity that wins millions of hearts nor even the most popular kid in school but trust me, there is someone out there who will be yours and build a family with you.
Every time you experience break ups, you need to ask yourself these questions :
This post is for those of you who are experiencing heartbreaks and having trouble with “moving on”. I want you to understand that just because you let go of someone, it does not mean you are giving up on love. And just because someone left you, it does not mean you don’t deserve to be loved anymore. It comes back to your faith in God. He knows what is best for you because it created you. He knows the right one for you while you don’t even know it. You have to trust Him. When He takes something or someone away for your life, have patience and remind yourself that if it was meant for you, it would have stayed. Sometimes heartbreaks are a blessing of Allah swt. God would never harm you. He is saving you for a better one.
Don’t lose control of your heart. Whoever you’re in love with, don’t depend 100% on that person. He/She is just a human being like you. Dont starve yourself just because the person is not here with you. Don’t lock yourself up in a room when the person broke your heart. Your strength, your time, your efforts, your faith, your life is not controlled by that person. You are a slave to Allah swt. Depend on Him. I like to remind all of you this one more time, it is Allah who gives you the heart and it is He who can give what your heart wants. It always comes back to your faith in God.
Don’t give up on love. Whoever was your ex-lover, don’t throw hate on them or try to damage their new relationship. If you truly want to have a better life, you need to soften your heart and forgive others. Don’t look back in anger. Don’t think just because she/he is your ex, you think you don’t need them but who knows, both of you might end up in a situation where your ex is the only human who can help you. Relationship is relationship but don’t forget about humanity. Don’t forget Islam teaches us to have peace with others. End your relationship in a peaceful way. Apologize and have a slow talk with each other. Ask what you did wrong and let them explain themselves so that you can learn to improve yourself. Maybe it’s just a misunderstanding. Dont let the anger control you. Be kind and speak good words. You’re not weak for doing that. Allah loves those who have patience and show kindness. If they refuse to have a slow talk and decide to just walk away, then let it be. Dont force them. They are too weak to face their trials. You did a good job on trying to make peace. Good job. Dont give up on love no matter how bad people hate on you. This life is temporary. Remember that everything here is a test and you gotta remain faithful to God.
And if you ever found a new partner, remember to do better than before and accept their imperfections. Love is not only about perfection but its about two people accept their imperfection and help one another to overcome it, and thats the perfection of love. You might thing you’re a burden to others but someone out there is meant to carry your burden. Someone out there meant to guide you to be better. Someone who would never give up no matter how bad you turn out to be. Love does hurt because it requires sacrifice just like how you need to sacrifice time and effort to worship Allah SWT.
In conclusion, when you feel like you’re in love with someone, ask yourself again…do you? Do you actually love that person or you only love yourself? Because you want that person to fulfill your temptations? So that you’ll be happy? But how about the person? Would she/he be happy with you? The fact that youre forcing her/him to stay. Yes you give everything youve got but if that person still leaves you, dont blame yourself. She/he just not the one for you. Don’t give up on love, okay? It’s important to have patience. If Allah truly want that person to be yours, then no doubt, no matter how far she runs from you, she’s gonna come back to you. Allah knows who is the one for you. So yeah, before you truly fall in love with His creations, fall in love with Him first, your creator. Commit yourself to Him.
Keep on building up your life by spreading positivity and love for others. #buildWithYou #BuildToInspire
